Urgent Update

Dear Family,

We wanted to let you know what was currently going on in our life. Courtney has been having intense pain in her pelvis, which has been radiating down her legs and into her back (its called SPD). This pain has been going on for nearly a month and makes it difficult to attend to the kids, housework, walk and even sleep.  She cannot lift the kids without increased pain and this pain causes her to be unable to function.

 This has led to me preparing for the youth summer of missions program solely from home and only on a limited basis when not caring for the kids or tending to Courtney.

In addition to this we were recently informed that the Bible college is cancelling their January semester in order to get their new property built and established. These contributing factors and through much prayer and consulting with pastoral staff (both at our home church and with John Bonner in Peru) we have decided that there could not be a more perfect opportunity to return to the states to receive the healthcare that was inadequate or completely unavailable in Peru. Our return to the states will allow Courtney to receive the medical care she needs, and return to a state of functionality. In addition we will have help here and this will allow me to focus on the YSOM program.

While here, I am committed to doing at least 30 hrs a week of YSOM work via the internet. This will include designing the curriculum,  creating a massive database with every calvary chapel youth pastor in the US and across Europe (so we cast a bigger net to recruit from) designing a journal with devotional questions, making/following up with ministry contacts and creating a missions program to inspire young people. The church has graciously offered me a quiet place away from the kids to work where I will have fast internet, copy machines and other administrative tools at my disposal (things not always readily available in Cajamarca)

Also this medical furlough will allow us to see a specialist regarding Ella’s stomach issues, and provide  the ability to have a safe high-risk delivery of our 5^th (and final) baby.  Which we will be returning home to Peru with on June 13^th.

We are saddened by the reason that we needed to return but are thankful for the opportunity to spend this time with you all.  During our medical furlough we will be paying for our expenses in Cajamarca as well as expenses incurred while living here. We also wanted to thank all of you who have supported us in prayer and financially and continue to do so as we prepare for this next season of ministry.

With all our love, in His sweet name,

BJ, Courtney, Brodin, Ella, London, Colton, and Baby Miller

New baby, sickness, and a birthday

As most of you know via our newsletter, and facebook, we are expecting our 5th little blessing around June 2nd sometime... We appreciate more than ever the congratulations, the excitement, and the prayers.  We haven't received one negative comment, such as "are you guys gonna be done after this one? Or, don't you know how that happens? Or, you guys should get a tv, or are you guys crazy?? "  We don't know if we are done after this one, we do know how this happens, we do have a tv, and I don't think we are crazy... well maybe BJ a little, but not me. ;)  These used to upset me more than they do now, I think they are almost comical now, but I still have my weak moments, where they do bother me, and it does hurt.  We consider each of our children a blessing, and have chosen to be obedient to God and His plan for our family.  We do not believe in medical birth control, not because of our faith, or religion, but because of the strong abortive properties in most medical birth control, we had considered other barrier methods until God got ahold of both BJ's heart, and mine seperately and through scripture, and asked us to be obedient to let Him determine our family size.  We spend much time in prayer after each child and we feel confident that the One who called us, will be faithful to let us know if we are done having children. 

One more sick! Ella has seemed to avoid the sickness that has plagued the rest of us... She is our strong trooper, she had a cough but has seemed to avoid the snotty nose and crankiness, so far...

 Our sunday morning didn't include going to church, which makes us sad, but we would rather heal then spread our germs to others.  Its no fun... our sunday morning did include a split lip and alot of blood.  Our kiddos are crazy and were playing hide and go seek, brody came charging out of his hiding spot in the closet right onto his face.  Seriously the face bleeds alot! He tore( again!) the little piece of skin that connects your top lip to your gums....Lots of tears, ice, and tylenol and he's running around again... Please pray for our sick household.. we feel like hermits and are itching to get out, pray for me as I have zero energy, this cold is kicking my butt and ligering forever! Im very limited in what I can take, and I don't have my super supplements to get my natural remedies.  :)  I still cant figure out why we can't upload pictures to our blog, but can upload them to email and facebook?? Anyone have a clue.. we have fast internet, and yet nothing? 

I will send them in the next newsletter.. also we want to thank those that have sent us mail! Our kids have loved it, I don't think I ever see them as excited as when the mail man comes to our door.  For those of you wondering what you can send, we have received a postcard, a card envelope, a regular legal letter envelope, a small yellow manilla envelope 3X5, we have also received a 8X11 envelope!  Our kids have received stickers(which they love and burn through quickly) and glow sticks, and capsules that turn into sponges, and thin paper childrens books, this was a HUGE hit as they love getting read new books, oh and a birthday card for London that she could color! so fun! Other things we would love is craft stuff from the dollar tree, pompoms, colored popsicle sticks, googly eyes, glitter glue, whatever you would feel led to send, we will find a craft project for!

Thank you for all the letters, the facebook comments, the messages... We appreciate each and every one, and we feel so supported when that happens.  Thanks again

Ella's Vaccination Story

NOTE**ELLA is not currently in the hospital, or sick, she is happy, and we are all doing well... She has some things that we still work on, and we arent out of the woods, but as for now she is ok....

Once we got Ella's medical records, we realized that it wasn't her two year old vaccinations, which we could have sworn she had. It was her 18 month old vaccinations. ( We are in the process of going back to our insurance to make sure that no vaccines were billed at her two year old visit. ) We talked to a few people at the National Vaccine Information Center, and they said that they have had thousands of stories where kids get vaccines, and their symptoms get worse and worse over time. Each childs body is different in the way it reacts. The dtap and HIB are the ones that Ella received, oddly enough the HIB adverse reactions mirror all the rest of them. We are adding this, because we always want to be accurate with her story, never fabricating, sticking as close to when things acctually happened. For the most part we were accurate, once we got her records we realized that she had even more symptoms prior to august... she had been dealing with for months.

We fully vaccinated all of our kids, on time. We never knew that our choice would end up hurting her, we are thankful she didn’t become autistic, or even worse, die. We give our guilt to Jesus, knowing that we made the best choice possible with the information we had. We never researched, we just did it because we were vaccinated, and our parents were vaccinated, and so on. We did not make an informed choice. We regret this, and in telling Ella’s story, we aren’t trying to bring guilt upon you, we are trying to bring you information, to bring it to light, so that more parents can see just what vaccines can do. Please do us a favor, do Ella a favor, please read this, in its entirety, watch the videos if you can, and look at the list of ingredients, then do your own research if you are not yet convinced. Our whole heart prays this never, never happens to anyone else, and the only way we can start to make that happen is by sharing our stories, our friends stories. Please don’t dismiss this thinking it will never happen to you, or the benefits outweigh the risk, they don’t. The vaccine companies will not admit that any of the cases against them are from vaccines; they won’t say that it was the vaccine, yet millions have been paid retributions because of them. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

In april of 2011, we took our beautiful girl, Ella Mae in for routine 18 mo old shots. Ella received the HIB and Dtap vaccine combo, called Pentacel, and went on with life as usual. Shortly thereafter Ella started having trouble going to the bathroom without help of a laxative, a couple of months later Ella began complaining her head hurt…she was a 2 year old so bonking heads kind of comes with the territory, but she began saying it more and more. After this progressed she would say "I bonk my head" (when she was standing right in front of us and obviously didn’t hit her head at all) then the "spacing out" began. She would say she bonked her head and then stare off at nothing for minutes at a time, no amount of calling her name, or noise would bring her back. She just was present without being present; after the terribly long 3 or 4 minutes had passed she would come out of it. Ella started smiling less, showing less emotion, her expressions became few and far between, she kind of always had a frown on her face…her eyes became lifeless, with a dull glaze over them.

Those moments were enough to seek medical help, too see what on earth was going on with our daughter. About the same time we decided to get help, more signs manifested themselves. At first we thought falling asleep in her high chair was cute, and took pictures of it, until it started happening regularly. At first we dismissed a lot of her symptoms; we chalked it up to thinking, "hmm that’s weird." We began asking each other, "Honey do you notice that Ella has been doing such and such a lot more?"

That’s about the time when the uncontrollable night terrors started, screaming gut wrenching screams for more than half an hour at a time in the middle of the night, with 3-4 episodes a night, while complaining of her head hurting and her eyes hurting. She would be walking and then just suddenly fall down, none of our other kids around to push her, there was nothing to slip on, just seemed like suddenly she had problems walking. She was sensitive to light as well as photography, sunglasses didn’t help, she would scream when it was too bright. We discovered later that she had lost almost all muscle tone, which was affecting her ability to chew, walk, to balance, to pull herself up onto chairs, and she couldn’t even go to the bathroom without the aid of a laxative because her body didn’t have the muscle to get it out. The frequency of these symptoms increased steadily and Ella’s ability to function decreased steadily. Things she had been able to do consistently she was no longer able to do. She lost the ability to feed herself, and to pick things up, gross and fine motor skills had diminished greatly.

Because of the struggle it was to eat, she lost all interest in eating. At one point she went from eating a normal 1300 calories to a 200 calorie intake primarily of liquids. Later through intense therapy (and praise God for them) we slowly introduced first more calories through multiple supplements, and then more variety.( I remember crying when Ella took her first bite of a chicken nugget, it was her first bite of meat protein in months!) Ella also had texture issues something she didn’t have before. When she would get something on her hands or on her face she had to stop what she was doing in order to get wiped clean. She couldn’t focus enough to continue with whatever she was doing until the "problem" was resolved.

Ella was hospitalized twice, once because we were desperate because she wasn’t eating at all, coupled with all her other symptoms so we went to the emergency room. She was admitted and our first visit to the hospital was a few days until they could get her to take in some calories at least, we were told it had nothing to do with vaccines, and ordered to follow up with our pediatrician.

The second time we went to the hospital, she had lots of prolonged "space outs" we weren’t sure if they were seizures, so the doctors ordered an EEG, cat scan, and blood work, they did a half hour EEG (instead of the prolonged 24 hour one) they said nothing showed up with any of it. Ella was walking around her room and the doctors and nurses witnessed her falling down, her space outs, and even her night terrors, and they said "we see that she has problems but we don’t know what it is or how to fix it" They sent us to a neurologist and an ophthalmologist. The neurologist ultimately said it’s not a problem with her brain, but didn’t order an MRI. The ophthalmologist said that she might need glasses in the future but that her eyes weren’t the problem either.

This left us desperate…We had tried a chiropractor upon recommendation, because at this point we were willing to do ANYTHING to get her better! His first question was, "was she recently vaccinated?" I said yes within the last 4 months, but assumed he was a little slice of crazy, he must have been was one of those hippy people who didn’t believe in the medical world. At the same time this got us thinking, and researching that it could be that even more. We were willing to research all possibilities in order to help our daughter, as the doctors were willing to do nothing for her. We started begging for a referral to a speech therapist so she would at least eat, it was finally granted, after a long tearful conversation with our pediatrician.

Ella went in for an assessment at the achieve center. The assessor realized that Ella had many more problems than speech therapy alone would correct. We were referred to Stepping Stones, and Ella was assessed by the occupational and physical therapist. Ella was scored at the level of a 10 month old; she was 2+ at this point. She had been previously talking fine and all her motor skills were there. The milestones were being met and now she had regressed a full year backwards.

The therapists came to our house (another blessing) Ella had a physical therapist, speech therapist, dietician, and occupational therapist all assigned to her. She had anywhere from two to four appointments a week, we then got connected with the Infant Toddler Network; they acted as our advocates and really pushed for her to get better.

Instead of celebrating riding a bike with training wheels for the first time, drawing a circle, or watching her play pretend, we celebrated each little victory, from 200 calories to 300 and so on. Being able to pick up a fork, even if it was the wrong way to do it, was a victory. New foods, not falling asleep in her chair at the dinner table, having a bowel movement that didn’t make her scream and cry, these were things we celebrated!

After months of rigorous therapy Ella got worlds better, but still not completely healed. We were cleared from therapy, with things to work on as she grows, as we were moving to Peru, in South America. Her muscle tone is still lower than it should be. She still has trouble going to the bathroom without Miralax (a laxative), she still has trouble climbing things, and she still doesn’t sleep a whole night without waking up and screaming. At 3, now Ella has no concept of potty training she doesn’t know when she needs to go to the bathroom only when it has happened. We rejoice in all the daily victories we see in her but we would be fools if we did not acknowledge that there is a lot of work ahead of us. This is our story, Ella’s story, this is why we choose to no longer vaccinate, and why we will fight to get her story heard.

My research included the National Vaccine Information Center website, and YouTube. I went on YouTube and typed in vaccines gone wrong, or vaccines with adverse reaction. Tons and tons of video’s not from "anti-vaccine radicals" but from Moms, sisters, aunts, grandparents, of kids, and some adults who were affected by a vaccine, MMR, Gardasil, Hep B, Dtap, Flu vaccine… Why do you think that the vaccine companies set aside millions of dollars each year to pay families of those affected by vaccines? (http://www.nvic.org/injury-compensation.aspx)


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From the Vaccine maker:

Ella had most of the symptoms; we found a few that she wasn’t medically diagnosed with, because our doctors/hospitalists refused to do any further testing. We believe without a shadow of a doubt that is was because of her vaccination. You don’t have a normal, perfect, healthy 2 year old child that all of a sudden regresses to that of a 10 month old for no reason. There was a cause, and based on the symptoms we believe it was due to the dtap/HIB.)



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Third world internet...

Hey friends and family, We wanted to update you, as it has been officially 3 weeks since we have landed in Peru. Unfortunately our internet is beyond slow, if working at all, so at the moment I cant upload any photos to blogspot, i can upload them to facebook, but not everyone facebooks... and we have hit a wall as far as uploading addresses to hotmail... we have a typed out list of all our contacts, but cannot seem to get them into our saved contacts on email, which is very frustrating as we need to send out a mass email to our friends, and family that support us... But aside from all the technical difficulties, we are doing great. We got hit with sickness as soon as we got here, the altitude sickness was intense for just me.. I had bad vertigo, with dizziness, the whole nine yards! Everyone else did fine adjusting to the altitude, then Brodin our oldest got sick, and so did the baby, Colton. Two down, and then mama gets a very bad sinus infection, just when we thought we were all recovering, the girls start coughing at night, this lasted for a few days.. just coughing and snotty noses, and then London our third child, starts puking, everywhere, all day. Six days later she is better, and our family is on the road to being normal..whew! God is good in the midst of our sickness! We love it here, love the people, the bible college, the life. It is so humbling, so amazing to be called to such a beautiful place. We are adjusting, slowly to doing things very different. Our cooking isn't fast, our laundry isn't fast, nothing is really fast. This is the biggest change... not bad, just different. :) There are days where my poor planning has forced us to have quick dinners, with whatever we have laying around... and thats ok my kids are fed :) Or poor planning has led to laundry not dry :) We will get the hang of it all, in the mean time we are working on getting faster internet, our landlord flies in from Lima on sunday, he will then discuss faster options with us so that we can work from home, as well as upload photos and skype. Here is our contact info to those who are asking. We would love to hear from you, and you are always welcome here in Cajamarca! Our Phone : 509-723-4173 (no texts or pics) Our Address: Jr. Huayna Capac 373 Los Banos Del Inca, Cajamarca Peru, South America Like us on Facebook at www.facebook.com/MillersToPeru Email us at: Calledtogo@hotmail.com Skype us at: millersinmissions Text us at 509-497-7758 we can get pics or text here but no calls. :) Its easy to save our numbers as BJ and Courtney text, and BJ and Courtney phone :) We love you all, please be praying for us, we will update again in just a few short days with tons of photos and upcoming prayer requests.

Up, UP, and away!

The Millers are off!

After some concern about whether or not they would have seats on either flight, I'm pleased to announce that BJ and Courtney are on their first leg, which takes them to Los Angeles.

Courtney has asked that you remember them in prayer today and please pray that their luggage arrives with them.

PACKING HAS BEGUN!!

My parents are here! Oh I am so thankful they got to visit with us in our last days on North American Soil! It is now 12:01am on August 20th, and this is the start of the official "10 Day Countdown!" My mom and I started packing our bags, and we managed to finish 5 of the 24 we will be taking, thats right 24 bags people! Gasp!! 16 of those bags will be 50lb bags, and then lots of carry ons... They are now occupying my in laws guest bathroom! We are so thankful to God for His provision. On a different note, We walked into church today, and sat where we usually sit,and have for the last 3.5 years, this is the very back row, closest to the doors... This is because we usually have a child in service with us, or multiple children in the nursery and preschool rooms just down the hall..that often need us at least once per service. :) But as I stood there in worship, I looked around at all the familiar faces, and felt that it was a small slice of heaven, spending eternity next to familiar faces, whom you love, and worshipping Jesus for all eternity, I can't think of anything better.. nothing on earth can replace what that will feel like.. then after an amazing, beautiful, powerful message from our Pastors wife, I was so humbled, and then it hit me, this is my last sunday, before our last sunday! Two more times will I be able to hug these people before we leave, today and then next week, and thats it! My heart sunk, it's so bitter sweet... After Pastor Kate wrapped up her message, and closed the service, I found myself making a bee line for her, and hugged her, and I lost it... I tried to be strong, but I was a mess... a hot mess as our family likes to put it. Kate just continued to hug me and prayed over me,and for me... People, I have real struggles, and real doubt, that I have to daily get rid of, and satan tried to attack me, and make me feel like I wouldn't be able to accomplish the tasks the Lord set before me. False. God's got this, He created me, and set this plan in motion, we just said yes. Nothing, Nothing can stand against us, that God Himself has not ordained... if my God ordained it, then there is a purpose in it, I am thankful, honored, and humbled to be apart of His plan. Please, please pray for us, the attacks of the enemy of our souls are strong. I will continue to say Yes to Jesus, because I am a daughter of the King, a wife to an amazing man, a Mother to 4 beautiful children, and one angel baby, and a Missionary, wherever I am, I will say yes, because I have the most amazing gift that can ever be given, I have the answer, the only way, I have perfect limitless love, I have Jesus, and I want to give Him to everyone. - Courtney

Almost there!!

We are almost there we are at 90% of our monthly goal,we still need 200.00 monthly. We are at 80% of our one time moving goal, and only need 2000.00 more there! The yard sale fundraiser was a success and gave us 1240 dollars toward our trip! We were so blessed by all who donated towards it! We have to have all of our money in by July 31st (of course we will still accept it any time after!) :D But we would like to have it all into Shepherd's staff Mission Facilitators by then. :) If you have any questions please email us at calledtogo@hotmail.com or call us at 209-620-0353. Thanks friends for standing behind us to reach the people of Peru!

We are so excited to move to Peru, we gotta leave earlier!!

God has opened the doors to go to Peru earlier, so we have a new leave date!! AUGUST 28, 2012 We will be leaving on a jet plane! As most of you know BJ works for the airlines, so we are getting a discounted rate to fly down to Peru...and by discounted I mean so ridiculously cheap it feels like we need to pay the airlines more money as the meal they give us on the plane might cost more than our tickets...lol His parents also fly free, so we got to thinking, if we all take 2 bags thats 16 free bags, so they are flying down with us, they will help get us set up, and then BJ and his parents will fly back to the states to take care of some things and work...our friend Brandi from church is flying down the day before they leave to help me with the kids and help set up the house.. We are so excited to move to Peru and get involved with all God is doing there... We are currently at 55% of our initial goal, and 38% of our monthly goal! If you would like to support us financially please go to www.shepsstaff.org/miller and click "donate now" There are multiple ways you can support us, also if you live in and around Cheney we will be having a yard sale fundraiser that you can donate stuff to, and then come by and shop during Rodeo Weekend July 14th :D Thank you for also covering us in Prayer as we prepare our life and family to move to Cajamarca, Peru :)

Leaving for Cajamarca September 15th!

We are headed to Cajamarca, Peru September 15, 2011!! We will be coming along side Calvary Chapel Cajamarca, and helping in many different ways. Children’s park outreaches, women’s ministries, administratively, teaching, discipleship, evangelism. So much ministry will come just by making ourselves available to God in a foreign third world country, we want to be Jesus to all who God brings our way. Prayer Requests: Please be praying for the people of Cajamarca, that God would begin to prepare the hearts of those we will encounter. Pray for those already ministering the gospel there, that the Great I AM would meet everyone of their needs as they serve Jesus! Pray that we will continue to trust in His plan and provision for our family. Pray that God would give us understanding as we learn the Spanish language. Pray for our kids, as we are beginning to explain to them God’s plan for our family, and what that will mean. We have two financial goals before we leave: 1.Our Initial moving goal, this is the money we will use for plane tickets, and to furnish our new home. We need $13,000.00 and we have about 7400.00 2. Our Monthly support goal, this is the money we will live on month to month. We are at 15% of our monthly goal and need to be fully funded to go,our goal is $2300.00 monthly, we currently have $250 pledged. If you would like to support us financially, please contact us with your address and we will get a newsletter out to you with information on how to support us. If you have any questions, please call BJ at 509-496-7548 or Courtney at 209-620-0353 or email us at Calledtogo@hotmail.com